court..again

I finished my court papers yesterday.In case you are wondering what court, it's custody court. I will be Divorced in September, thank god..I can close that chapter in my life..It wasn't the worst chapter i'm sure but it wasn't a good one..I'm loking foward to the good chapters of life.

Ialready took david to court for custody. We agreed on vistation as long as it is supervised.Which it is too be supervised by his mother. So since then I've had many problems..I'm more then over them..David and his mother..My boys come back being children I don't even know..they are horrible and I think it has alot to do with that David let's them do what they want. My son actually peed on the side of the couch after he came back from their..i feel like david is telling him to do this stuff because he does not like G..So I decided it was time to take it back to court and see what the judge could do about it.

I hope I'm doing the right thing..Honestly lately I''ve been thinking how I need to get my license straightend out then I need to go back to school and get my shit together. From their I iwill know what to do with my life and who is ment to be in it and who is not.

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Comments (5)

  1. rebecca2013

    sigh….. a lot of this brings back memories…. the only good part was that my ex had NO custody whatsoever and relinquish visitation and actually… any interaction with our daughters…. (Good enough…) Chica you are doing the right thing…. it is for the general welfare of your children….it is a damned shame that our ex spouses have to act in this manner but….as I told my ex… that’s what courts are for…. To MAKE you do what you are too frigging sorry to do on your own….. Go get what you need…. to be happy again… licenses and school if you need…. do it so that you won’t have regrets…. anytime you like to talk privately…. I am a PM away

    July 22, 2014
    1. amandaadanielle

      see my boys dad has money..what i don’t have..so he pays his way through everything..and they are liars they are willing to lie just so I can basically be unhappy..very very childish..his whole family..and thank you

      July 22, 2014
      1. rebecca2013

        yes well my husband’s family all were snobs without the money…. wannabes actually they acted as if they were millionaires…. My family… is FAR from adobe shacks like my mother-in-law claimed I was from…. My father was a diplomat so I really don’t think we lived in a dirt floor house like she says now…. I can understand some families my dear chica…. they can be brutal…

        July 22, 2014
  2. jascieepinn

    Oh goodness yikes. You should really read my last post. I fear for my own future :/ I think you’re doing the right thing but you should just come forward to him and ask him what he does with the kids to make them behave like that when they get back to you. Just be frank and ask him why he’s doing it. I mean, you KNOW he’s either telling them to behave that way or not discouraging them from doing it and either way, he’s being a bad dad because even if he’s teaching them those things out of spite, they’re going to carry those bad habits and ideals with them throughout life. Plus he’s scarring them emotionally. You and your ex should be able to have a smooth relationship, atleast in front of your kids. Show them functionality and civility, not dysfunction and animosity. They’re going to remember that growing up and to them, that’s a normal relationship between separated individuals and it’s not. Try to work it out the best you can.

    July 23, 2014
  3. thesecretkeeper

    Keep persevering! You are doing the right thing and I hope all works out for you!

    July 23, 2014